I’m Tamara, and I’m a speaker, life alignment mentor and essence illuminator. I work with women, like you, to discover what lights you up so you can live a fulfilling and meaningful life. My talent is helping you find the core essences that make you unique while providing a guide on how to infuse these into your life and business… enabling you to feel aligned and authentic… and also stand out from the crowd.
Imagine having a life that is authentic, meaningful and fun.
Imagine living a life where you wake up full of energy and excitement for the day… yes, still working and taking care of the family, but also doing things for you that give you that feeling of lightness and joy. Discovering things that you love to do… you know those things that when you are doing them you lose all track of time… Or even rediscovering things you used to enjoy and then building that back into your life. Imagine you feeling so filled up with all this goodness that it is spilling out of you and starting to affect those around you in a positive way….
Or maybe you are feeling lost, bored, unhappy where you are, easily frustrated with others or your situation… don’t know what to do with your life….
But then feel guilty because you SHOULD be feeling grateful for everything you have…. But it’s not enough, is it? You feel empty inside but you don’t know what to do to make it better.
I know how this feels because I was there. The guilt, the emptiness, the frustration, the sadness.
All my life I did what was expected of me. I worked so hard to be successful. I went to college, got married, and started a family but the harder I worked for all these things, the emptier I felt.
I remember when my first child was six months old, I felt so broken one day I curled up in a ball on the floor, sobbed, and began to plan a new life. I wanted to run away, leave my family behind and start all over. I was convinced I was bringing them down, and they would be better off without me. I had nothing left to give.
Do you know how hard that was? To come to that realisation that my new family was better off without me?
I was ready to leave everything and start over for their sake.
But in that moment, as I continued to cry and plan, my baby’s cries got louder and pierced my thoughts. They broke the spell I was in and woke me up! I realised I had to fight not only for my baby to have a mother and my husband a wife, but I had to fight for ME! I have been given this one beautiful life to do something and I was going to not just survive in it… I was going to learn to thrive and be the best I could be at being ME.
I had been in the darkness for so long, struggling so hard by myself to be happy that it is no wonder I broke down… lying there at my lowest, but that my friend is where the magic happened. In that brokenness, a light was able to get in. Before I was caught up in the busyness of trying to be happy and I was closed to everything but when I stopped and broke open wide that gave me the opportunity to open up and allow the universe to help me. What happened next?
I surrendered. I acknowledged I could no longer do this myself. I did not have the answers or even the energy at this point! I had no clue who I was or what I wanted, let alone what made me happy. So I pulled myself up off that floor and reached out to my husband and did the bravest thing I had ever done. I asked for help. I told him I didn’t recognise who I became and i needed help so together we found a therapist and started my journey to uncovering my most brilliant self.
Oh the adventures I’ve been on! I went to Nicaragua with a group of amazing, heart-centered women where we not only worked on our businesses but faced our fears, played and gave back to others. Imagine being in this gorgeous piece of heaven on earth and being so inspired to create your soul message video, making soup and feeding over 200 children, painting a home which was the last stage before handing it over to the family and sledding down a volcano! This seriously lit me up and made me feel alive!!!
Since I’ve been on this journey I have created courses, collaborated on projects with others, travelled with work and met up with other heart-centered entrepreneurs in other cities and countries!
I never would have been able to imagine a life like this when I was laying on that floor thinking of running away from it all. It takes one decision to change your life. Are you ready to let go of all the struggle? Are you ready to embrace your new life because it begins the moment you decide.
Come take my hand and together we can start to change your life, one that will be better than you could ever dream.
To get started, please schedule a free 20 minute discovery call with me.